No one said that being a college student with a child would be easy, but using the resources on campus could make things less hard.
Many people have enough trouble with college as it is. A lot of people have problems with raising children. Combining the two can lead to an extremely challenging few years.
Parents, particularly young parents, who attend school must be prepared to face an uphill battle. The parent must face the standard academic workload. He or she must ensure that the child is cared for while he or she is in class. In many cases, the parent must also work to support the child, which complicates the situation further.
ULM counselor Karen Foster shared many tips on how parents could be successful.
She said one of the most important steps is for the parent to find a support system. A set of family and close friends can be the difference between success and failure. The support system can help the student in many ways. Family can help to take care of the child when needed. Friends, especially those who are also in school, can help the student in their studies. Both can be there for emotional support, which is very important.
“A lot of times they’ll try to do it on their own, and you can only do that for so long,” Foster said.
Foster said that most of the successful parents take advantage of the resources available to them. She said that many parents who are in school deal with very high levels of stress. They must take steps to curb this. The counseling center is a great place to start. The center can help them to manage their stress better. There is also a childcare center that is located on campus that can assist young parents. The center gives parents a reliable place for the parents to leave their kids while remaining close by in case of emergency.
Informing the professor of the student’s circumstances can also be very beneficial. Most professors will work with the student to make his or her schooling a little bit easier. Foster encourages parents to let professors know if their child is sick or an emergency comes up so they may know what they missed.
Time management is crucial to being successful as well. Balancing between parenting, school work and work can be very challenging. All of this can lead to high amounts of stress which may lead to a student feeling overwhelmed and giving up. Foster said that taking breaks are important. The student taking time out for themselves helps to keep stress levels down which helps them in the long run.
Following these tips do not guarantee success, but they can go along way to improve the chances.










